It’s
a big world out there!
The more we
traveled, the
more we realized how
little of the
world we have
actually seen. I know that may sound ridiculous, but it's true. Here's the map of
countries we have
visited together.
That's only 15% of the countries in the world! This number humbles us and reminds us that there is still so much more to see.
But
while
we may feel that
the
amount of land we covered is tiny in
comparison to what's out there, we're pumped about how much culture we were exposed to. We have learned a lot
about different kinds of people and about ourselves. We are bursting full of (random)
observations, realizations, conclusions, memories, experiences, lessons, and
spreadsheets...
OBSERVATIONS
Most
stray dogs: Argentina
Most
beautiful beach: Hill Inlet portion of Whitehaven Beach (Whitsundays, Australia)
Most
beautiful ocean: Croatia
Best
food: Spain (Katie), Italy (Steve)
Biggest
surprise: Bolivia
Best
hill towns: Andalucía (Spain)
Best
tourist trap: Leaning Tower of Pisa (Italy)
Most
friendly: Scotland
Biggest
drinkers: Australia
Craziest
drivers: Brazil
Worst
roads: Cambodia
Most unique city: Venice (Italy)
Most unique city: Venice (Italy)
Most
livable city: Sydney (Australia)
Most
over-rated city: Florence, Italy & Mendoza, Argentina (tie)
Best beer: Belgium
Best
ice cream: Italy
Best
pizza: Slovenia
Happiest
people: Vietnam
Coolest
church: Sagrada Familia (Barcelona, Spain)
Best
waterfall: Iguazu Falls (Brazil and Argentina)
Craziest natural phenomena: Giant's Causeway (Ireland)
Craziest natural phenomena: Giant's Causeway (Ireland)
Strongest cultural
identity: Vietnam
Coolest currency: Australia
Best last-minute decision: Canyoning (Slovenia)
Coolest currency: Australia
Best last-minute decision: Canyoning (Slovenia)
Smallest
people: Peru & Vietnam (tie)
Tallest
people: Netherlands
Most
unusual sightings: New Zealand
Most
uncivilized event: Carnival (Brazil)
Worst
thieves: Argentina
Most
expensive: Australia
Least
expensive: Thailand
Biggest
mistake we almost made: not going to the Dolomites (Italy)
Weirdest
moment: public restroom inside the bus station at 6:00am (La Paz, Bolivia)
There
are foods that the rest of the world eats more than we do: aubergines
(eggplant), beetroot (beets), and hard-boiled eggs. People who speak other
languages mimic animal sounds differently: Cock-a-doodle-doo (English),
Kuu-ke-le-kuu (Dutch), Coco-rico (French), Ki-ker-iki (German). And the
countries where religion is strongest are also the countries who have next to
nothing.
We
noticed that globalization is changing the sacredness of local craft. We
couldn’t buy Venetian glass, Thai silk, or French lavender without worrying
that it actually came from China somewhere else. It's not that we would
have ever known the difference, but the merchants rat each other out. We're absolutely certain that we ate
microwaved lasagna in good restaurants in Italy…we're just not sure how many
times.
REALIZATIONS
One
of the
neatest things about traveling to another country is how much it teaches you about your own country.
From
family mausoleums in Buenos Aires to cemeteries full of photos and fresh
flowers in Italy and ancestor altars in Vietnam, it is clear that the rest of
the world does a much better job of honoring their ancestors. We have a lot to
learn.
Do
you know how
foreigners
like to vacation in America? They rent the biggest SUV they can find and just drive it around. The California
coastline is popular, as is the Louisiana-Florida-New York route, but that's not the point. The huge-ass SUV is the point. That's how they think they experience “American culture”.
In
America, we pay people to be nice to us. It's called tipping. And it's pretty amazing to see how quickly smiles and helpfulness fade when people are
working
on a set scale.
We
learned how passive aggressive Americans can be…mostly because tricks that used
to work for us at home didn’t work for us on the road. As Americans we think that if we're promised something and we don’t get
what was promised, someone needs to make it up to us. Other countries just
don’t think
this
way. They
say, “Too bad!” and walk away. Even in a highly developed country like Australia, our
little passive aggressive hints weren’t enough to break through the cultural
barrier.
I
think
how a culture
enjoys a Sunday evening says a lot about its priorities. Most
Americans mope around home on a Sunday night feeling sorry for themselves and depressed about having to go to
work the next morning. Meanwhile, Europeans are out socializing in droves –
enjoying their Sunday evening and soaking up every last minute of their
weekend. I love my work ethic and I love being American. I love that people
recognize us for these qualities. But I will also work harder to enjoy my days
and not spend them worrying about tomorrow.
One
thing that I've
confirmed about myself is that I am 100% Type-A American. When trying to
explain how much work Steve and I had to go through to organize our itineraries,
hotels, transportation, activities, etc., a German friend of ours responded, “Typical
American. Always busy.” He was so right. We put never-ending to-do lists on
ourselves, but it’s hardly ever necessary. Over the summer this little motivational poster was making its rounds on
Facebook. It's
my new mantra.
CONCLUSIONS
When we were in
London learning
about British
monarchs
who
have reined (and gotten themselves into
trouble) for the past 400 years, it dawned on me that no matter what the century or
culture, humans' universal
motivators are always the same: love and power.
There are other things, too, which are the same no matter where you are in the world: hippies, the smell as you walk by a Subway restaurant, and people’s obsession with California. These are rock solid.
There are other things, too, which are the same no matter where you are in the world: hippies, the smell as you walk by a Subway restaurant, and people’s obsession with California. These are rock solid.
At
work I often reference the Good-Fast-Cheap model. It states that whenever you want something done, you can only choose two out of the three. It can be good
and fast, but it’s not going to be cheap. It can be fast and cheap, but it’s
not going to be good. It’s all about priorities, and on this trip, we learned
quickly about priorities:
South
America: Safe (sacrifice money to put yourself in secure locations)
Europe:
Cheap (sacrifice location and style to stay on budget)
Australia
& New Zealand: Speed (sacrifice sleep and money to cover lots of ground)
Southeast
Asia: Clean (sacrifice good deals to avoid bugs, mold, and disease)
After
contemplating the different continents and how they compare to each other, I'd say...South America is where you go to be culture shocked. Europe is where you
go to be cultured. Australia and New Zealand are where you go to live and play.
And Southeast Asia is where you go to be inspired. It left me thinking, what is
America? The first thought that came to mind was, “America is HOME”. I write
that with a humongous smile on my face.
MEMORIES
The best word I can
think
of to describe the
memories is “infinite”. In fact, sometimes when people ask me what a country was
like, it takes me a long time to come up with a response. They must assume I either drank or slept
through it all, but
really, the
awkward silence is just because I'm thinking. When I'm put on
the spot, it's hard to process
all of the
memories, compare my experience in one culture to another, and feel like I'm doing the country
justice. I can just feel my brain spinning.
We were making such wonderful memories
straight up until our flight took off from Saigon, and I'm beginning to worry that we didn't get
enough
time to process them. It all ended so abruptly and now I have a huge fear that I will forget all of my
memories. I know deep down that this won't really happen, but it's a
panicked feeling that I've experienced almost every day since we've
been home.
Somehow,
we have
to find a way to keep the memories alive!
When I began photographing our trip, I wanted it to be more journalistic than
touristic. I wanted our photos to tell the complete story of our year. I didn't
want pictures of only the pretty things. I also wanted pictures of the unusual
things, the mundane things, and the funny things.
EXPERIENCES
The most popular
question we get
asked is, "What was your favorite place?" This is easy.
New Zealand changed our lives. Our eyes saw things we thought only existed in storybooks. We learned how fulfilling it can be to live with next to nothing. And all of this allowed us to focus on our relationship like never before. When I picture us in New Zealand, I picture two kids holding hands, running, and giggling through the countryside. 100% pure happiness.
New Zealand changed our lives. Our eyes saw things we thought only existed in storybooks. We learned how fulfilling it can be to live with next to nothing. And all of this allowed us to focus on our relationship like never before. When I picture us in New Zealand, I picture two kids holding hands, running, and giggling through the countryside. 100% pure happiness.
The
second most popular question is, "Which country would you not go
back to." Well, there
are lots of countries we’ll probably never revisit because (1) we feel like we
saw them
pretty thoroughly and (2) we have so many new
places we want see. I'll put it this way…there is not a single country we went to that I wouldn't recommend. We
were happy
with all of them
and we wouldn't
have changed a thing.
Here’s
the list of our top 10 experiences:
1. Living out of a campervan (New Zealand)
2. Arriving at Machu Picchu via the Inca Trail (Peru)
3. Hiking the Dolomites (Italy)
4. Flying in a seaplane over the Great Barrier Reef (Australia)
5. Exploring the ancient temples of Angkor (Cambodia)
6. Camping at the Tour de France (France)
7. Driving the Great Ocean Road (Australia)
8. Spending the night in Ashford Castle (Ireland)
9. Strolling Split, Hvar, Korcula, and Dubrovnik at night (Croatia)
10. Indulging in bottles of wine and gelato in Capri, Sorrento, Amalfi, and Cinque Terre (Italy)
1. Living out of a campervan (New Zealand)
2. Arriving at Machu Picchu via the Inca Trail (Peru)
3. Hiking the Dolomites (Italy)
4. Flying in a seaplane over the Great Barrier Reef (Australia)
5. Exploring the ancient temples of Angkor (Cambodia)
6. Camping at the Tour de France (France)
7. Driving the Great Ocean Road (Australia)
8. Spending the night in Ashford Castle (Ireland)
9. Strolling Split, Hvar, Korcula, and Dubrovnik at night (Croatia)
10. Indulging in bottles of wine and gelato in Capri, Sorrento, Amalfi, and Cinque Terre (Italy)
LESSONS
When we returned home, a dear and wise friend
of mine told me, “It’s always great to hear about the beautiful sights and the
delicious food, but what I am fascinated about the most is what influenced you
as a person.”
It’s
an understatement to say that we learned a lot this year, but the most
important lessons we’re bringing home are the ones that we can immediately
apply to…
OUR
OWN LIVES: we've watched a lot of people around the world who are living
extremely simple lives, and they are happy. I'm not saying that we’re
going to go to their extreme, but there’s got to be a happy medium. We've seen the
joy in a simple life. Un-glorify busy.
THE LIVES OF THOSE WE LOVE: after
watching a devastated family in a Laos airport weep and literally hold each
other up as they said good-bye to one of their loved ones, I realized just how
important relationships are. They’re the most important things in our lives. We
want to show those who we love, with our actions, just how much they mean to us.
The more inconvenient, the more meaningful.
OUR RELATIONPSHIP WITH EACH OTHER:
people love to ask us if we fought during the trip. Of course we did! We spent
every waking and sleeping minute next to each other. But we learned a valuable
lesson that I know will help our marriage for the rest of our lives. Whenever
we found ourselves in a fight, it was never because of something bad that one
of us had done to the other. It was because it was hot outside, or we were lost, or our backpacks were heavy. We were frustrated with
the circumstances, not with each other. And as soon as we realized that it was
outside factors causing the fight, the fight no longer mattered. We needed to
work together to immediately get out of that situation.
OUR
FUTURE CHILDREN: after observing other tourists for nearly a year, we are
convinced that parents take their kids to grown-up places way too young. We
understand the desire to culture children from a young age, but don’t the
parents want to have a somewhat enjoyable vacation, too? Go ahead and judge us for
judging them, but we were there and we heard the quotes…
"I hate today! It's the most boring day ever! – 5 year old at the Roman Forum
"I don't want to look at mud!" – 6 year old at the New Zealand thermal pools
"I hate today! It's the most boring day ever! – 5 year old at the Roman Forum
"I don't want to look at mud!" – 6 year old at the New Zealand thermal pools
STATE OF WELL-BEING
We
successfully made it around the world in 323 days with no bed bugs, no food poisoning, and nothing
stolen – aside from two luggage tags.
We
did have one attempted purse snatching in Buenos Aires and one attempted Kindle
snatching in Saigon, but both failed. The only harm
we encountered was during week #2 in Salvador, Brazil
during Carnival. Steve was forcefully
pick-pocketed among a crowd of thousands for a whopping $10. And while the
physical nature of it was a little scaring at the time, we laugh about it now.
It’s pretty obvious to us why we were able to make it through
the past year safe, healthy and happy. There were a lot of people praying for
us…and there were many prayers said on our end, too. We also never let our
guard down. There wasn’t a single hotel room we stayed in where we didn’t check
for bed bugs. And even when he was relaxing,
Steve always had our bag safely within his clutches.
(side
note: this picture makes me laugh because it’s an Asian hammock and it
perfectly demonstrates how Steve was too big for everything.)
A
week before we came home I actually told someone (and believed myself) that the
U.S. uses 50-cent coins. Sometimes we struggle to come up with an everyday English word. And we have to
think hard to remember what side of the road to drive on. It's going to take
awhile to get completely back to normal.
The other day my mom
asked me how we felt about the past year. Was it what we thought it would be?
Did we do everything we wanted to do?
The
answer was easy…this
year exceeded our expectations in every way imaginable. I think back to how nervous we were last January before we
left. We knew something big was about to happen, but there's no way we could have understood how this trip would change our lives. I am very proud of what we were able to
accomplish.
Now
my burning question is…will I ever be able to shower without flip-flops again?
RTW BY THE $$$
Transportation
– 35%
Activities
– 19%
Lodging
– 18%
Food
& Drink – 16%
Equipment
– 6%
Paperwork
& Visas – 2%
Medical
– 2%
Souvenirs
– 2%
Research
– 1%
RTW BY THE NUMBERS
Countries:
25
Days:
323
Hotels:
147
Average number of nights in the same place: 2
Minutes
we've spent together:
~ 463,680 out of 465,120
Meals
eaten out: 875
Pounds Steve lost: 40
Weight of each backpack: 35
Pounds Steve lost: 40
Weight of each backpack: 35
Computer
keys that haven’t worked for six months: 5
Edited
pictures: 21,696
Languages: 17
Passport stamps: 36
Visas: 6
Languages: 17
Passport stamps: 36
Visas: 6
Big
bottles of sunscreen: 8
Big
bottles of deet: 3
Average number of days in-between laundry sessions: 10
Average number of days in-between laundry sessions: 10
UNESCO
World Heritage Sites: more than we can count
Car
rentals: 10
Campervan
rentals: 1
Motorcycle
rentals: 3
Accidents:
0!
Parking
tickets: 1
Speeding
tickets: 1
Bird
poopings: 4
Bee stings: 1
Bee stings: 1
Friends
and friends-of-friends who took us into their homes: 4
Familiar
faces: 11
Happy globetrotters: 2
Before
we left on our trip, we received advice from several of our friends to
keep the countries to a minimum and spend a longer amount of time in fewer
places. They were worried that we would exhaust ourselves. We decided not to
follow their advice and to just do it our way. We knew this was a once in a
lifetime opportunity, and we wanted to see as much of the world as we possibly
could. We loved every crazy minute of it.
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